Hatty J. Lee

pSYCHOTHERAPIST, foundeR, & author

I’m so glad you’re here.

My journey began over 20 years ago, immersed in the lives of marginalized communities within the foster care system, homeless shelters, underserved schools, and community mental health centers. These were communities that were close to home for me. As a Korean / Asian American cis woman and child of immigrants, I've navigated the complexities of family violence, addiction, intergenerational trauma, and profound loss. This lived experience ignited my passion for healing, leading me to pursue an M.S. in Marital and Family Therapy from Fuller Graduate School of Psychology, one of the most reputable training programs in the field.

For the past 15 years as a licensed marriage and family therapist # 83772, I've had the privilege of supporting a diverse range of individuals and families across Los Angeles County. My clinical experience spans child and family clinics, K-12 schools, and adult outpatient centers, allowing me to work with children, adults facing varying degrees of mental illness, couples at all stages of their relationships, individuals with diverse abilities and sexual orientations and gender identities, the elderly, and families from a multitude of cultural backgrounds. My goal is to bring understanding, hope, and healing to those who have experienced the weight of trauma and adversity.

My path has been one of deep personal and professional healing. As a therapist, I've had the privilege of walking alongside others on their journeys, while also navigating my own through years of psychotherapy. This has included working through complex family dynamics, healing intergenerational trauma, redefining my spirituality, and embracing my Asian American identity. I've learned to overcome imposter syndrome and cultivate holistic self-care.

For a long time, I lived in a place of scarcity, driven by a relentless pursuit of more, often at the expense of my well-being. I struggled with overextending myself, experiencing burnout, and remaining in harmful relationships.

A traumatic childbirth and near-death experience with my first child profoundly shifted my perspective, leading to an 18-month struggle with postpartum trauma. During this challenging time, I underwent a period of intense soul-searching. This experience catalyzed a profound transformation, allowing me to embrace a life of abundance, dream beyond perceived limitations, empower others, and make a meaningful impact on the world.

my Work

After much hesitation about entering the entrepreneur world, I launched Oak and Stone Therapy, which has since grown into a group practice. My vision was to create a space where I could connect with and support clients who share similar lived experiences and identities.

My practice focuses on serving Asian American healers, creators, founders, entrepreneurs, artists, and public figures seeking to explore their inner lives. I specialize in working with adults and couples navigating complex family dynamics, codependent relationships, the challenges of balancing demanding careers and family life, the pressures of entrepreneurship in a hustle culture, creative and performance blocks, spiritual deconstruction and integration, and the exploration of racial, ethnic, gender, professional, and spiritual identities.

Alongside high-quality training and consultation, I believe that effective healing stems from personal work. As such, I am committed to the practices I guide my clients through. When your inner life is aligned, it positively impacts your external world. Clients often appreciate my direct, attentive, and holistic approach, which addresses the physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and multifaceted aspects of identity. I foster a creative and open therapeutic environment, allowing for dynamic, deep, and practical work.

I integrate all aspects of myself into my practice, whether in therapy, writing, or artistic expression. I am dedicated to fostering honest and sometimes challenging conversations that lead to authentic self-discovery. Together, we will engage in a process that may include laughter, tears, dreaming, and difficult dialogues, all aimed at nurturing your most authentic self. I encourage you to leverage all available resources—your community, faith, knowledge, skills, personality, and lived experiences.

If you feel we might be a good fit, please reach out. Let’s embark on this journey together.

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Oak & Stone Marriage and Family Therapy for individuals, couples and families in Los Angeles

Oak & Stone Therapy

As the founder of a thriving group practice, I lead a team of seasoned Asian American therapists, providing virtual services across California and Washington, and in-person therapy at our Pasadena and Los Angeles offices. We specialize in integrating insight-oriented and somatic approaches to empower individuals, couples, and families to heal and thrive.

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The Indwell Guide

I am the co-author of The Indwell Guide, an 8-step mental health resource designed to empower individuals through visual storytelling, education, and practical tools. In collaboration with a life coach and visual artist, we created this guide to bridge the gap between self-help and professional therapy. Discover our mission at Indwell and order your copy today.